Is my face so terrifying, why does everyone avoid me?

 

I’ve always wondered why my reflection looks so different from the other dogs. When I was a puppy, I remember being so excited to meet new friends and to feel the love everyone else seemed to get. But as I grew older, something changed. The other dogs and even the people seemed to avoid me. I didn’t understand why. Was it my face? My uneven eyes? My crooked snout? Why did they look at me and turn away, like I wasn’t worthy of their attention?

Today was supposed to be a special day, my birthday. But all I could feel was loneliness. The other dogs had owners who celebrated their birthdays with cake and love, surrounded by joy and laughter. They had beautiful, shiny coats and faces that made people smile. But what did I have? A face that looked like it didn’t belong, a body that never seemed to catch the admiration I longed for. I often asked myself, Is my face so terrifying, why does everyone avoid me?

The day started just like any other. I woke up in the corner of the yard, alone. I stretched and looked around, hoping today would be different. I had heard that birthdays were special, that they were days when you could feel loved, feel cherished. But when I looked around, there was no one there to wish me a happy birthday. There was no cake waiting for me, no party hats or presents. No one even noticed me.

I sat quietly, watching as other dogs played and received the affection they deserved. They were so happy, so carefree, with their shiny coats and perfect little faces. It seemed like everyone wanted to be around them, to pet them, to love them. But when they looked at me, it was always with a quick glance and then away. I tried not to let it hurt, but it did. It always did.

As the day went on, I found myself wandering the streets, hoping to find someone who would take a moment to see me for who I really was. Maybe, just maybe, someone would see past my imperfect face and realize that I wasn’t just some ugly dog—I was a loyal companion with a heart full of love to give. But the more I walked, the more I realized that no one would.

Then, in the distance, I saw a man sitting by the side of the road, smiling and playing with his own dog. The dog had a shiny coat, and the man petted it gently, his eyes filled with love. I watched them, wishing I could be the one in that moment, to feel that warmth. But as I took a few steps closer, the man’s eyes met mine. I froze, unsure of what would happen next. Would he look away like everyone else? Or would he be different?

For a moment, there was silence. Then, something unexpected happened. The man stood up, took a few steps toward me, and smiled. “Hey there,” he said softly. “You look like you need a friend.”

I couldn’t believe it. Was he talking to me? The dog with the crooked snout, the dog with the strange eyes? But he wasn’t turning away. He wasn’t judging me. He was actually coming closer. I lowered my head in surprise, unsure of what to do.

“Don’t worry,” he said, kneeling down to my level. “I think you’re beautiful just the way you are.”

My heart raced. Those words, those simple, kind words, made me feel something I hadn’t felt in so long—hope. Maybe I wasn’t as ugly as I thought. Maybe there was someone out there who could see me for the dog I was, and not just for my appearance. Maybe, just maybe, I could be loved.

The man gently stroked my fur, and I felt a warmth spread through me that I had never known before. “Happy birthday, buddy,” he whispered. “I’m glad I found you.”

It wasn’t a big celebration, no cake, no presents. But it was everything I needed. In that moment, I realized that my worth wasn’t tied to how I looked. I didn’t need to be perfect to be loved. I just needed to be me.

And so, while my birthday was spent quietly, I no longer felt alone. The simple kindness of one person, one genuine smile, had changed everything. It was the best gift I could have ever received—the gift of acceptance, the gift of love.

And as I lay down to sleep that night, I felt something that I had never felt on my birthdays before: happiness. Because, for the first time, I knew that I was loved, just as I was. And that, more than anything, made my heart feel full.

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